Theodore Learns to Ask First

Theodore Learns to Ask First

Theodore borrows a friend’s special toy without asking, then learns how permission and a sincere apology can repair hurt feelings.

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Parent Guide

Respecting Belongings by Asking Permission First

A sincere apology and a caring repair can help heal hurt feelings

Theodore borrows a friend’s special toy without asking and discovers that even a small choice can hurt someone’s feelings. By learning to ask permission, listen to the friend he affected, and offer a sincere apology, he begins to repair the moment. As you read, ask, “Why was it important for Theodore to ask first?” or “What did he do to help make things right?”

Practice permission language during everyday play: “May I use this?” “Can I have a turn when you are finished?” and “Is it okay if I borrow it?” If your child makes a mistake with someone’s belongings, guide them to return the item, name what happened, apologize, and ask how they can help. Reinforce respectful choices with words like, “You asked first,” “You listened to their answer,” or “Your apology helped repair the hurt.”

Sean Butler